kwills88:

We live in a generation where a guy has a chance of getting a girl pregnant before he knows what’s her favorite color is.

Everyone wants to love and be loved, but no one wants to take time to enjoy the progress. We went from asking “what’s your future goals” to “what’s your favorite sex position”. How can you go from having sex, to saying maybe we should take things slow? Thats basically walking before you’ve learned how to crawl. People end up in shitty relationships then are confused as to why it didn’t work out, I mean “we’ve only been talking for two weeks, they seemed perfect for me”..Whatever happened to taking things slow? Building that level of comfort with each other and being certain that this is the person I really wanna be with.

Are we really that scared of being alone, that the moment we find someone who’s interested in us, we just want to hurry and seal the deal due to the fear that one of you might lose interest if you take the time to build something. Putting yourself out there just to get fucked over seems like a pretty risky move simply because patience is lacking, then It’ll turn out that you’re the victim of encountering shitty people, and “why do this always happen to me” moments will ensue, instead of realizing that you have shitty judgment because you never took the time to truly get to know someone.

You can’t force yourself to love someone, but you are given the chance to choose who you’ll end up in love with.